
Most instances don’t allows spread of misinformation especially about minorities such as trans people. You’d be better off creating your own instance if you want to have 100% control over what you see.
For more information about that topic here’s an article about it: https://www.gendergp.com/new-report-confirms-trans-athletes-do-not-have-biomedical-advantage-in-elite-sport/
They probably would be, especially as the moment lemmy is still small. If not I’m sure there’s the opportunity to create a ‘partners of trans’ community in the future if needed.