That’s pretty good, actually

Were you in any particular transition during that period? Like high school to college or 20s to 30s? I wonder if that worsened the impact for people, if the social isolation happened to time with important life transitions

Especially given this context, maybe you can be upfront about your uncertainties with them?

This is exactly the type of thing I was reflecting on. Have you also found yourself having a lower tolerance for stressors?

Absolutely. It comes down to exposure therapy, basically. Reacclimation.

Yeah, I can tell that I get a little weird if I’m alone too long. And the time it takes is shorter since covid. I’m assuming from too much time alone during the peak period

I’m more referring to people who aren’t so much choosing to isolate. Not a preference, but a loss of the capacity or opportunities to socialize

now find it completely weird and disorienting to deal with people in public now.

This is what I’ve been hearing (and experienced). And that it’s not a preference, it’s more that the nervous system has struggled to recalibrate; or there was not enough opportunity for it to do so and that has led to a feedback loop

Yes some kids I know, it just sort of became how they identify: shy, more anxious

Maybe if we smushed the two together and made up a word? Like hikicovidomori

Ouch. Yeah

I’m glad to hear you live in a country where you can get more specialized support! I hope the new treatments pan out

Yeah it was certainly a net positive for some. Of course this post isn’t a criticism of those that enjoyed it, or were unaffected by it. But there is a sort of lost generation group, so to speak, too. That includes younger people who feel maladroit or disconnected in a way that they tie to that period. People who already struggled to socialize and the period made it worse enough that they never recovered

Now this is a top tier showerthought

Sounds like it’d be faster than the nervous system could process pain?

Straight up. We’re entering a period of likely suffering and that’s that.

Thank you! I think being on the kbin/mbin framework sometimes sets me back, especially when it comes to hopping over to other instances or doing searches

Give out the best candy possible to the few who come by. The rumor of the amazing trove will spread. But then “run out” early so that some of them will miss out and learn the lesson for next year

I figure if it’s open source someone will have read the code and I can settle for riding that effort

I appreciate the input! I admit to a knee jerk wariness of ReMarkable due to their pervasive advertising on Facebook back when. Ada on there are like a modern equivalent of As Seen On Tv

Kobo seems to consistently get positive comments in forums oth