I always wonder about people who claim they don’t work. People say they’re rigged, meh, maybe so, but how rigged can they be?! You get pictures and words, decide if you want to engage. That’s the meat of it, and they’re not fucking with that.

Years ago I logged into Plenty of Fish with a fake woman’s account, looked at the men’s profiles. Jesus fucking Christ. What a bunch of pathetic sad sacks, boring as hell to boot. Don’t start me on the pics.

Went back and rewrote my profile to be funny and interesting, likes came pouring in. I’ve had many, many women over the years message me to say, “Hey! Not looking for a date, but wanted to say your profile is awesome!” Both a bummer and nice to hear. :)